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She is sure, she is true, she is straw is straw,
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She is true, is true, she is praise, pray, she
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is she is you.
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Hello, everyone, welcome to today's Word of Mom Radio. Here
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on the Word of Mom Media Network. I'm your host,
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Dori Di Carlo, and you know we are here week
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after week, show after show, breaking those myths that mompreneurs
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and business women, especially those of us building our businesses
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from home, that we're just dabbling in between bake sales
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and getting our nails done.
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We're not.
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We are smart, we are savvy, and we are sharing
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the wisdom of women in business and in life. And
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I'm looking forward to bringing today's guests into our Mompreneur
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model show. Nicole Road, taste maker and authentic lifestyle creator,
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is the founder and creative force behind our Nixon Interiors,
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a boutique design firm known for blending bold, elevated esthetics
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with real life function as. With over fifteen years of
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experience in construction and design, Nicole holds a degree in
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building construction from Georgia Tech and has an extensive working
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knowledge of all aspects of the construction process. Her technical
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expertise combined with an eye for expressive design allows her
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to bring each client's personal brand to life in their homes,
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whether it's one of many or there forever space. The
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Cohal's clients are busy professionals who value exceptional design and
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trust her to deliver spaces that are both impressive and
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intentionally Craftednicle launched the Coal Road Design before evolving the
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brand to our Nixon Interiors, expanding from a home office
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into her own warehouse and receiving house. This operational independence
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allows her team to manage every aspect of a design
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project with precision and care. Whether clients are drawn to
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me minimal, modern, layered, traditional, or something entirely unexpected, Nicole
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embraces the fluidity of style and helps them find their
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unique expression. Her ability to merge structure with soul means
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no two projects ever look alike, while each feels undeniably
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personal and polished. She's originally from Orange County, California, and
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her upbringing was rooted in creativity and a deep appreciation
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for home and lifestyle. After her family relocated to Bakersfield, California,
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she eventually made her way to Atlanta for college, where
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she met her husband, Jeff. Today, they live in Central
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Florida with their four energetic boys from five to eleven.
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You are still in the thick of it, and she
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calls her family paralal creatives, constantly fueled by outdoor adventures
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like camping, mountain biking, and lakeside living. Their lifestyle informs
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her belief that a home should support how you live,
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not just how it looks. I could keep going and going,
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but I would much rather bring the coal in. So,
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with all that being said, Nicole, welcome to Word of
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Mom Radio.
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Hey Dory, thanks for having me.
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Yes, that was a lot, you know, and it's kind
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of fun to listen back and go, wow, I did
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start at home, didn't I, you know, and it's amazing
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how fast it all goes. So I would love for
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you to take us on your journey that has led
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you to where you are now.
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Yes, story, I've always been someone that was like deeply
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affected by my surroundings. The colors of the room, you know,
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the lighting, just the way a room felt. And even
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as a child, I was that kid who was moving
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my bed around, painting the walls, you know. Fast forward
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to college and switching dorms in your first apartments, like
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it was always a really big deal to me. I
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always painted. I always used whatever budget I have had
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to make the space feel better and feel like me.
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And it was a huge priority. And I never really
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knew what I was doing or why I was doing
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it until I discovered what interior design actually was. Like,
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this is a career and this is something that people
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go to school for years for. There's firms, you know,
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across the world that do interior design. And it's not
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just picking you know, beautiful pillows for people's sofas. It's
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really about shaping how people live and feel. In college,
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I had enrolled as an engineer, industrial engineer, just like
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my dad, being firstborn daughter, you know, going to Georgia Tech.
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You know, he was an entrepreneur as well. But I
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quickly realized that I was not an engineer. Yes, you
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can be creative and be an engineer, but it really
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wasn't the lifestyle the direction I wanted to go. I
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discovered the College of Architecture. They had a building construction program,
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which sounded great. I love projects that have you know
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that beginning, a middle and then an end result, and
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a lot of careers don't have that. You know, you
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either get to be in the beginning. You get to
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be in the end, but a lot of times people
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don't get to see something completed, and to me, that
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was really important and construction. At that point, I got
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a great internship where I got to work with architects
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and then designers, intier designers that were so smart and
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so creative and loved what they did. But at this point,
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you know, I'm a few years into my degree, looked
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into transferring to duel and role and too out of
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state tuitions, you know, in two thousand and eight, it
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didn't make sense. I knew there was other ways to
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really learn, and that's what I did. Anytime I was
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on a project that had designers or architects, I really
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asked all the questions. But then I graduated in two
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thousand and nine, and that was really when the economy
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was not great to graduate with a degree in construction.
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My now husband and I had been dating for a
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few years. He was headed to Central Florida where we
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are now, to work for his family business, and I
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really wanted to stay in Atlanta. I just loved the buildings,
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and I love the architecture. I loved the life, but
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I didn't have a job, so I did as many
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people do, followed my then boyfriend now husband down to
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central Florida, interviewed with anyone that would read my resume,
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and was eventually hired by a team of construction companies,
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not to be the project manager that I was hoping for,
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but to run their business development and marketing, which was
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great looking back being twenty three, twenty four, twenty five
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because it immersed me into a new community. I got
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to go to networking events, I got to meet trades,
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I got to meet all these people that if I
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was doing something else, I wouldn't have had the opportunity
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to do. And because of that, you know, when I
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started having my children, I stepped away from that, you know,
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fifty sixty hour work week and really needed to reevaluate
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what I was going to do. I give credit to
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stay at home moms. They live the life they want to,
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but I realized, especially after my second was born, I
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couldn't do it. I needed to be creative. I needed
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to be interacting with others, and that was where Nicole
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wrote design started.
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I love it. Women start with why.
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Whatever their why is, either they see something that's not
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being done or they have to find a way to
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make what they want to do work for them.
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So what was it like?
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You know, we talk about the work life balance, and
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I joke all the time that is such an illusion
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because juggling. So how have you manage juggling four boys
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and growing from Nicole or Design to now our Nixon interiors.
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I think knowing that they know what I do, they
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get to see it firsthand. They come by the office
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now that we have our actual office, they get to
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see the finished product. They're friends with some of my
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client's children. So what I do is tangible. I'm not
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just sitting at a computer all day. But I've given
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myself the flexibility and the permission to be able to
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pick them up from school a few days a week,
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to be super present when I want to be super present,
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whether it's a sporting event or they have a function
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at school. I make that decision that yes, I will
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be there at nine point thirty for that hour. I
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won't be on my phone and I'll be there. But
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the hard part is less hard on the children and
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more hard as the mom. Knowing that you can't be
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a full time stay at home mom and run a company.
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It can intersect ut moments, but you can't do both.
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And that has been I would say almost the most
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challenging part.
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It is because the mom guilt thing starts to happen,
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and you are absolutely right, it is harder on you
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than the kids. I had three, and all three were
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involved in sports, and I was a single mom and
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running a business and everything else, and I would run
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myself ragged trying to get to all of their games.
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And they sat down with me and said, Mom, it's
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okay to pick one of us for a day. Because
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both all three of my kids were on double teams.
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Sometimes they had four games in one day each, so
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I would go on a Saturday Sunday they'd have eight
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to twelve games. So I had to come to the
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point that I knew that they knew I wanted to
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be there stuff, but sometimes you can't. And it is
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it's the mom guilt. How did you manage? Because again,
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now you have all of these outdoor activities and adventures
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with your kids, and I'm looking at your hat on
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the hat where my back on my car has all
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my camping gear in it. Because at any time I
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can hit the road and have everything including my pop
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up bathroom and shower.
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That's right in my car.
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So I totally love that you are kind of melding
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that into your business.
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So how do you do all in it? Well?
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I think one common denominator for the hobbies are that
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you can't be on your phone for any of them.
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You're in the wilderness, you have no cell reception. You're
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mountain biking, you cannot answer a phone call. Mountain biking
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or rock climbing or paddleboarding, or any of these other
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activities that the children love to do and we can
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do as adults with them, you can't be taking calls.
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And I remember it was a couple of years ago
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we were mountain biking and there was a dad pulled
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over on the side of the trail on the phone
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and his son was so ticked at him, and I
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remember my heart broke for both. Like the dad was
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taking it was a Friday, was taking time to be
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with the sun, but also had to take a call.
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And I've realized because of that and others, you have
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to be one hundred percent at what you're doing. So
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one hundred percent, you know, with the kids, or one
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hundred percent at work. Trying to do the fifty to
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fifty just leaves everyone frustrated.
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Absolutely. We talked about it so often during COVID. We
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did so many shows on just transitioning because for those
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work at home mom I personally feel that that is
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COVID really validated. All the mom for doors building their
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businesses from home. Were people, like I said, in the beginning,
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and they think we're dabbling and they don't really the
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discipline it takes to run a business from home. But
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when everyone was there and how do you do it?
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We gave tips, you know, sitting an alarm or putting
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a different colored light in and when that red light
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is on it means stop that mommy has to work.
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But the second at light goes off, you are one
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hundred percent with your kids and stuff. So I love
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that you know, you see that and how important it
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is because yeah, when you try to do the fifty
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to fifty, everybody loses.
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Yes, Yes, we've had a big conversation about transitions. One
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of the best parts of pulling my business from my house,
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beyond getting everything out of my house, has been my
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office is about twenty two minutes from home. It's also
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just about twelve minutes from the kids' school. But both
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of those distances give me enough time to reset, make
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a phone call if I need to listen to a podcast.
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And there's even times my husband and I have talked
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about this where we take an extra lap around the
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block when we get home because we need a couple
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more minutes. Because as soon as you come down that
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gravel driveway, they are ready for everything. You know, dinner,
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getting ready for sports, the logistics of life. You don't
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have a few more minutes once you walk in. You
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need to be ready for that as your door opens.
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On that note, we're going to take a quick break
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and say thank you to our supporters. But I really
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want you to think of what Nicole said, because it's
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really true. Once you walk in the door, that little
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bit of time is done. So that extra lack or
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two around the block not a bad idea. We'll be
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back here in just a moment. On Word of Mom Radio.
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