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She is sure, she is sure, she is strong, she
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is true, is true, she is brave, she is she
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is you.
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She is she.
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Is sure, she is true, she is strong, she is straw,
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she is true, is true, she is.
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Brave, is bray, is she is you.
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Hello, everyone, Welcome to today's Word of Mom Radio. Here
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on the Word of Mom Media Network. I'm your host,
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Dory Di Carlo. And you know we are here week
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after week, show after show, breaking those myths that morepreneurs
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and business women, especially those of us building our businesses
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from home, that we're just dabbling in between bake sales
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and getting our nails done. We're not. We are smart,
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we are savvy, and we are sharing the wisdom of
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women in business and in life. And I'm looking forward
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to bringing today's guest into our children's authors. Ali Leah
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Barrett is a four or not for profit leader turn
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children's book author. Beginning her career as an education director
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for a symphony orchestra, Leah reignited a love of telling
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stories while developing musical programs for families. She published her
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first book in the midst of COVID while serving as
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an executive director for the Friends of Chamber Music, a
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performing arts presenter in Kansas City. After navigating her organization
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through the pandemic, Leah pursued her dream of building her
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own business. Stories By Leah, her new series, beginning with
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The Odd Dog, will be part of her mission to educate, advocate,
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and fundraise for shelters and rescues throughout the country. I
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have to tell you Leah's book is so charming, it's
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so cute, and I can't wait for her to share
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her stories. So with that all being said, Lee, Welcome
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to Word of Mom Radio.
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Thank you so much, Dory. It's so great to be
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here today.
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I am so happy to have you here, and it
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really I would love for you to take us on
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your journey from that not for profit leader and the
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fact that the education director for a symphony orchestra, so
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really take us on the journey which took you from
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there to now this book absolutely so.
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I'm a b soonest by training, and I was training
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to become a professional musician, and during my master's degree,
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I started teaching after school band for an inner city
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school and really fell in love with outreach and really
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fell in love with working with kids, especially in more
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of an after school capacity. So when I was trying
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to kind of figure out where I wanted to go
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with my career, I did my research and saw that
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education directors for symphony orchestras really got the best of
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both worlds. They got to be really creative, they got
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to stay in the music realm and really work with families.
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Someone characterized it once as you get to be the
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fun aunt instead of the mom. So I spent six
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seasons as a director of education for symphony orchestra, and
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about three seasons in I was talking with parents as
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I was booking concerts and things like that, and I
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kept hearing the same things, especially with homeschool parents. They said,
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you know, your full orchestra concerts are great, but you know,
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I have a wide range of kids, like from age
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three to age thirteen, and my thirteen year olds love it.
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But like my three year olds, we go to the symphony,
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it's kind of a lot because you're in these big
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auditoriums that see two thousand and you know, my kids
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can't really see over the seats, and you have this
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sea of people dressed in black. It's not the same
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kind of experience. Do you have anything that's a little
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smaller and more intimate, and I kept hearing this over
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and over. So I developed a series called Symphony's story Time,
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and this was interactive activities. It was thirty minutes of music,
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thirty minutes of activities where kids got to interact directly
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with musicians. We had illustrations projected over the musicians. We
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made the musicians dress in really bright, fun colors, which
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interestingly was the hardest part of creating this program. They
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did not like that at all. And then since I
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was in Orlando, Florida, I had access to a lot
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of really great actors, actresses, etc. And so we found
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family friendly narrators to kind of take a little bit
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of the onus off of the musicians in terms of
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trying to present and play at the same time. We
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wanted them to be there to play and really create
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this enchanting music and not have to worry about narrating
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through stories. And that was a huge success. But I
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quickly learned that there wasn't a lot of repertoire out
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there that was really family friendly, that was even contemporary,
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and so necessity is the mother of invention. I suddenly
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found myself creating stories. My very first story was a
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twist on Goldilocks, where the bears have a musical home.
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She goes into the home to explore, and at the end,
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instead of the bears chasing her away, they hear her
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playing music and ask her to play music with them.
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Because for me, music brings people together, it really really does.
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And so that was the first time that I really
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just reignited a love of telling stories. And it coincided
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with meeting my first indie author, who I had hired
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to present his story like we created a live version
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of his story, and I said, you know, how do
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you get connected with the publisher? How does all this work?
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It was merely curiosity and he said, well, you know,
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I just published myself. I just find a printing company
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and we do all the publishing through our small imprint
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and we published one to two books a year. And
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I went, huh, I didn't really know that was the thing.
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I didn't know that was something you could do, and
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to be honest, kind of put that dream away until
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the pandemic when I found myself working for a performing
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arts organization with very little to do, and so I
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started just learning wherever I could about how you publish yourself,
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publish that first story, that Goldilock story, and then literally
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got my books in the mail. And a week later
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I was asked to step into an executive director role
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after our founder had stepped away, and so becoming a
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children's book author and really using that platform, as we mentioned,
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to educate, fundraise, and advocate kind of had to take
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a back burner. I felt like my organization really needed
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me to help stabilize, so I was acting. But the
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very first thing I said to my board was Okay,
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so this is not permanent. I do not want this
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job permanently. Just keep that in mind. And two and
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a half years later, we finally felt like things were
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stable enough that I could step away. So I found
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myself independently employed for the first time of my life.
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I was about to turn forty, and I told my husband,
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you know what I want for my fortieth birthday isn't
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a thing. I want a dog. I have had these
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highly demanding, time consuming jobs my entire adult career. I
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love dogs. I have always grown up with dogs. We
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are getting a dog. I will take care of it.
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And so I adopted a sweet little brindle Schnauzer who
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herself had had a pretty tumultuous upbringing, and she was
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really the inspiration behind my book The Odd Dog. She
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was a dog who had been saved from a euthanasialist
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in Texas, brought up to Kansas City, and then escaped
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her foster mom and went on an epic adventure and
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she was on her own for about eighteen days, and
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I just always wondered, like, what happened to her? What
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was she thinking? Did any of the things cause her silly,
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quirky behavior that she has now? And I think big
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that's the big impetus behind The Odd Dog. Half of
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the book is the Odd Dog kind of showing you
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glimpses into the life it had before it was adopted,
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to show you why it's kind of an odd dog.
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And then the second half is that dog adjusting to
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life in a home for the first time. And it's
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silly and it's funny. But in adoption world, you know,
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when we adopt, there's always that mystery to our animals.
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There are things that they do We kind of go,
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why did you just do that? And we don't necessarily
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know because they cannot speak to us. And so one
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of the big takeaways in this book is that odd
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doesn't learn anything, and I think that most of the
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time main characters are supposed to learn, but really, in
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the story, Odd does these really strange things. And the parents,
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because they love Odd and want Odd to feel loved
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and accepted in their home, find places where Odd can
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still be themselves, just in a different environment that makes
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them feel like they can be comfortable and happy and thrive.
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So that's kind of a long explanation, but that's how
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he got to today where The Odd Dog is officially
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launching in about two weeks.
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How exciting it really is. And you know what, it
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is a really cute story, beautifully illustrated. I mean, it
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is just engaging, and it really is true because unless
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you take in a puppy where you know where their
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experiences are happened. My youngest brother is an RV er
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and has an incredibly successful business Coast to Coast, he
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and his dog, and he just did an interview saying
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how he could never do this without a dog. And
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this is now his third dog, that Wyatt. It's so funny.
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We joke that each one of his dogs is the
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reincarnation on the next level, and now this one, it
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really is. Between Jesse and Jenny crazy how this dog
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Wyatt has incorporated all three. But it's so funny because
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his entire life is based around his dog. Yeah, where
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he goes, what he does, and for him as a
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solopreneur without that dog. And he jokes with me all
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the time that you know, come on, it's a dude,
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you gotta get a dog. I travel all over the place.
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I'm like Rick, I got three kids, I have grandchildren.
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I don't have you know I have you are it's
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you know, you got nieces and nephews and brothers and sisters.
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But you know that's it because it is, let's face it,
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having a dog. It's a perpetual two year old. Yes,
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and I have grand puppies. As matter of fact, next
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weekend I will be taking care of two of them.
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And I love on those dogs. I just really do.
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And and I loved it they're there and and there
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is something so special about that relationship and especially when
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you rescue the dog. Yes, and do they take that
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extra care because you don't know what they've been through
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and so I just I really do, and I love
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how kind of the owners are. Okay, we have to
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get used to this dog because he likes to climb
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and he.
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Likes to swim.
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Yes, it's just but you can't swim in the fish take,
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you know.
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Yes, well, and you know, we when we were kind
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of building the story together, we had thought about having
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what would have been a really powerful but sobering two
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page spread that had no words. That was odd, just
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wondering am I going to belong? And we decided no,
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you know what, there's not going to be no doubt
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to this dog that they belong like that that is
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on us, the owners. And I feel like if you
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can really get to know your dog, then you can
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build that trust over that relationship and then those quirks
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don't become things that feel insurmountable. You get to know
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them and then you just anticipate them, you know, just
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like just like you do children, just like you do
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kids that you teach. And I feel like building that
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rapport is so important and being able to read those
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cues is part of responsible dog ownership and responsible pet ownership.
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In fact, on that note, think about responsible pet ownership,
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please really think about what Lea just said. We're going
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And we're back here on Word of Mom Radio. We
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are talking with Leah Barrett in our children's authors Ali
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about her book The Odd Dog. It really is just
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like I said, it's such a cute book, and I
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love that it's from the dog's perspective of the things
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that they learned and the journey that they've been on.
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And so I'm gonna kind of flip it back to
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you again, how do you feel for you that working
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in not for profit leadership now having your own business,