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Oct. 1, 2025

Felicia Hurd Johnson on The Authors Alley with Dori DeCarlo

First-time author Felicia Hurd Johnson reveals her account of trials and challenges that shook and eventually strengthened her faith.

Felicia Hurd Johnson is a speaker and a self-published author. Felicia wrote a book titled, “Count It All Joy ~ Including the Broken Pieces ~ How My Trials Helped Me Trust God More.” which highlights how God brought her through the highs and lows of breast cancer, job loss, job gain, marriage, and divorce. Through it all, Felicia kept her faith and the challenges made Felicia better, not bitter. Felicia has shared her testimony on Texas Today, and NBC 5, thanks to God.

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She is sure, she is straw is straw, She is true,

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is true, she is praise, pray, she is please, she

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Hello, everyone, welcome to today's Word of Mom Radio. Here on

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the Word of Mom Media Network. I'm your host, Dori

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Di Carlo, and you know we are here week after week,

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show after show, breaking those myths that mompreneurs and business women,

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especially those of us building our businesses from home, that

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we're just dabbling in between bake sales and getting our

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nails done. We're not. We are smart, we are savvy,

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and we are sharing the wisdom of women in business

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and in life. And I look forward to introducing you

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to our new guest in the author's Alley. Felicia Hird

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Johnson is a speaker and a self published author. She

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wrote her first book titled Count It All Joined, including

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the Broken Pieces How My Trials Help Me Trust God More,

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which highlights how God brought her through the highs and

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lows of breast cancer, job loss, job gain, marriage, and divorce.

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Through it all, Felicia has kept her faith and the

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challenges made her better, not bitter. Felicia shared her testimony

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on Texas Today and NBC and thanks to God. So

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with all that being said, Felicia, welcome to a Word

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of Mom Radio.

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Thank you so much, thank you for having me. I'm

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glad to be here.

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Dory, Oh, I'm looking forward to sharing you and I

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would love for you to take us on your journey

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that you share in the book. Okay, and that led

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you to writing it.

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Well, I've always wanted to write a book for a

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long time. That it had been in my heart to

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write a book. But who has the time right? But

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I did journal, and so during the pandemic, this was

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a pandemic project. I figured that God had set us down,

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and so I wanted to come out of the pandemic

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have producing something that glorifies Him. And so the book

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counted out join including the broken pieces and how my

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trials helped me trust God more. And it's based off

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of James One where James remind the people that even

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through trials and tribulations, we still have to keep the faith.

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And so I'm just deeply rooted in my faith. I

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haven't always been. It's been a growth process, but I've

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matured in my faith. So I gathered all of my

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journals and I just started to write. And that's how

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the book became to what it is now. So I

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wanted to make sure that I captured how I was

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obedient and how I was disobedient to God and all

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of Him. And sometimes I didn't, but I learned through

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the process, and I've had an opportunity to share, as

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you mentioned earlier on NBC five, had an opportunity to

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share my testimony, and then I've also walked with women

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that have gone through what I have gone through, because

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I don't believe that what I've gone through was just

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for myself. It's for other people to see a real

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life person, you know, walk through it and still be

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able to smile and have a testimony and want to

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be able to share. So I'd like to give back

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and share with other women that are going through what

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I've gone through. There's been opportunities that leaders in my

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church have asked me to walk alongside a woman that

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has going through something. So I also have the opportunity

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to speak at women's conferences and share with them about

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my life, ass going through breast cancer, going through divorce,

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and happily remarried recently to Anthony Johnson. So life has been,

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like you said, highs and lows. But I think the

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loads that I had has set me up to be

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on a high and I am really in a good place.

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Even though it was difficult and hard and dark, I

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couldn't stay there. I know and knew that God had

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better for me and I would eventually come out and

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be able to share what He has done for me.

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Awesome for me. I got divorce back in nineteen ninety four.

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My children's father and I were in counseling on and

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off for five and a half years. Of the seven

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and a half years we were married, three kids got pregnant.

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got pregnant, you know, all three on birth control. It

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was just a crazy thing. But we went through mediation.

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We sat down and separation agreement ourselves, had it notarized

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because in New York it had to be legally separated

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for a year, and then took it to a mediator

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and we were done in two hours. And the guy said,

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you know, in my professional opinion, this is a very

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unorthodox agreement. I said, you know what, it's your job

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to make it legal. It's our job to make it work.

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And never slept, putting up the room our three kids.

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My children's dad just passed. It was a year ago

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in October at all that our kids were there. I

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was there, you know. I mean I always joked that

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we were very successfully divorced and raised our three kids,

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our two grandchildren. And you know, it doesn't have to

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be by ugly and mean. And that's one of the

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things that your book shows that you go you know,

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you guys had to go through me because you couldn't

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really reach an agreement. And that's see, it's so funny.

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I think that that's what lawyers do. They make sure

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you can't. They may fight over things that you want

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to fight about as opposed to just sitting down yourselves

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and deciding what you're going to do and how you're

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going to end this relationship and move forward. So I really, yes,

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totally identified with so much in your book. I really did.

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I know now you are out speaking, you are connecting

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with women all over in faith based work and things.

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But I would love for you to talk about that

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and how you're working with women experiencing all these different

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challenges that you go through and working with them to

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help them count it all joy.

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Yes, I like to speak positive and truth and to

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people sometimes when you're going through dark things, you can't

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see the light. And I try to be the light

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for them and let them know, and you know, real

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talk that it is difficult, in is hard, but they

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can get through it. So individuals will call me.

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No.

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I got a phone call a few weeks ago from

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a close friend that I hadn't talked to in three

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or four years, because I remember your book, I'm going

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through a divorce. Can you give me some tips? And

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I encouraged her to pray and stay with her husband

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if you know, if there weren't any violent or anything

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like that going on, if I'd stay if the situation

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is safe to stay in. And it was, and so

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they went to counseling and they prayed and they're working

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it out. And I talked to her last week I

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think it was, and they were celebrating his birthday in

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New Orleans. And not that I take credit for that.

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God gets all the glory, but I was able to

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walk walk with her through that because I've had women

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when I was going through my challenges that walked with me,

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that were patient with me and stood with me and

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cried with me. But they spoke life into my situation,

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so I guess it was and ire at a new

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church now, and I had an opportunity since Chapel, I

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had an opportunity to attend the women's conference earlier this

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year and had great response. I talked about how even

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I had difficulties on my job, even through those difficulties,

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I just pasted and prayed, and people recognized the difference.

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The environment didn't change, but I changed and people recognized

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that change in me, and it got better eventually, but

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it took some time. I had to dig deep and saying.

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When I was going through the divorce and my husband

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at the time said something and I responded in kind,

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and he recognized that my countenance had changed, and I

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was like, it's all God. I can't take credit for this.

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I'm just following what God has told me to do.

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It told us to do. The words are in the Bible.

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We just have to find those words for ourselves and

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dig in there deep and hang on to the words

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and get in the community. It's been in Isolation is

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not something that it's conducive as you're going through it's

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I were in community and we're meant to be together.

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I know that we were isolated through the pandemic. But

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we're out now, everybody, we're out, So we need to

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get out and socialize and find our people, if you will.

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And that takes a little bit of getting out of

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your comfort zone. Because for me, I'm an introvert, but

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I enjoy what I do and I enjoy what God

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has put in me and I want to share it.

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So I am out of my comfort zone. But it

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feels good. It's a little bit frightening at times, but

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I'm excited for it because I see the light that

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I'm able to shine on other people and have them

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talk about and share their testimony. We don't talk about

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our broken pieces, we don't talk about the hard times.

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Everybody see us. I'll put together, you know, with our

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make up on, and we're all dressed, but there's real

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life behind me, the makeup and the hair and the lashes.

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You know, It's like there's real life going on. And

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to be able to identify with women that have real

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lives and want to share and there is no shame

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because we're all going through we're all going through something.

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And several other groups that I've been able to participate in,

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we have real vulnerable conversations and those conversations stay within

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that group, and that I want to have people to

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have a safe but you don't want the telephone game.

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You know, everybody knowing what's going on. It's like it's

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personal to you. So as people are sharing things with me,

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I just assume that it's personal. I don't share. So

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if you want to share, that's fine, but I will

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not share what you've shared with me. And adultedly I will,

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but I will not you know, put a name to

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what was shared. And when I do share, it's to

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help someone else, not to bring shame or share other

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people's business. That's not what I That's not what I

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do gaining the trust of people and I want them

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to be able to trust me because we're an environment

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we have been for a while where people are not

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always trustworthy, and so I liked safe spaces and I

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want to create that. And there was a period where

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we were having Bible study at school at church, but

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it was the summers that we were taking a break

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and we were so involved in our Bible study. We

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didn't want it to end. I didn't want it to end.

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And this was during the period I was going through

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the divorce I think the divorce was about final and

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I wanted to keep it going. So I was checking

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out Starbucks and libraries. I think, where are we going

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to host our Bible study? I was trying to find

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the place, and then God reminded me that I had

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a house that he had provided that we could have

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Bible studies. So we finished out our Bible studies here

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in my family room, and so it was very comfortable

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and inviting, and it was very life changing. We had

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a lot of good breakthroughs in that Bible study that

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I will forever be thankful for.

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You spoke about the shame and things like that, because

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I think a lot of times people feel when they

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get divorced it's such a defeat and everything. And for me,

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it was the most Christian thing I did, because I

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didn't want my children to think that this is what

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marriage is. We just didn't bring out the best in

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each other, and sadly, we didn't even have a strong

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enough friendship, because a lot of times that's what holds

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you together through those ebbs and flows. It's the friendship

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that foundation. And sadly, and it's funny because we tried

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to get back together seven years or so after we

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got divorced. Our kids were six, four and two when

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we got divorced, so now they seven years on each

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one of them, and all three of them were like, Okay,

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now we understand why we're divorced. You guys work better

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into separate.

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Now both my boys are I have grandchildren, and I

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just I thank God every day that all of my

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kids have found the meat that really is their lifelong

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partner because their worships are so solid and then everything

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else has built on top of that. And I think

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your book was that foundation for some people. I mean,

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everybody has their own belief systems. For me, I'm a

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Christian woman. And it's funny because, through the pandemic and

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just through everything going on politically, my whole grip on

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they think I'm a liberal, what happens when they meet Jesus.

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Love it absolutely, period. Right, this is it.

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have kind of rooted I found this wonderful place where

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and things like that, and it's all about the joy,

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so that you know, counted all joy. For me, I

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love that title because I'm just an ancy. I wake up,

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my first thought is thanking God that I woke up

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for my blessings. My last thought before I go to

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bit and thank you God for just the blessings of today,

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good days, bad days, and everything indifferent, you know. And

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it's wherever. Yes, I do think that often that faith,

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just the belief in something higher than yourself, can really

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write things that you just don't know how you're going

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to get to tomorrow.

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Absolutely absolutely, Even with the job lost the story, it's

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like the little jobs that I was hanging on too

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that I wanted so bad and you know, ended up

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losing them, having do the layoffs or other situations. It's

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like I ended up getting a better job, you know,

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the one that I was with for twenty something years.

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for a year and spend time with my family. And

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it's like I was able to gain more than I lost.

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as if as I'm going through life now, if something

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so I don't miss what I didn't have, or as

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before I would miss what I what I didn't have.

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So yeah, I'm in a good place. I'm in a

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really good place. I'm thankful to God for being patient

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with me, and I'm thankful to be able to share

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with you and your audience and other women that are

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that are going through because we all need somebody. Again,

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like I said earlier, we're meant to be in community.

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We're not designed to be in an isolation. But I

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think people are in isolation because we don't trust. And

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so if I can gain the trust of someone, it's

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like I want to preserve that because once i'm your

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friend and I'm loyal to you, i'm your friend.

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And we're back here on Word of Mom Radio. We

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are talking with Felicia for Johnson about her book Count

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It All Joy, including the Broken Pieces How My Trials

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Help Me Trust God More. I love what you said

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about French and that first friend has to be you

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with yourself. My mommy always said you are your own

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best friend. You could never have a friend a real

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true friendship. Part of that friendship is something that I

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have learned is not staying in places where you don't belong,

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where your heart is telling you get out, but your

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head society blah blah blah. That is not being a

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friend to yourself, compromising who you are and what makes

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you happy. Then you're not giving your best self. You're

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not bringing out your light. Mary Ann Williams. When you

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shine your light, you give others permission to shine theirs.

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And that's another thing that I grabbed from your book,

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just that finding that power within you and what it

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has done for you. So when you think about that,

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do you have something where you really look and you

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just feel so proud of.

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You know, right now, I'm really proud that my mom

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had an opportunity to see them before she passed a

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couple of years ago. I think that's my proudest moment,

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as well as getting remarried and my daughter Rachel, through

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it all, she's been able to keep the faith. And

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so as a mom and as a daughter as like

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those are and a wife, those are, you know, the

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pretty high honors to hold. And so when you can

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do that successfully I feel truly blessed that. So those

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are the things that I really really hold dear and

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near to my heart.

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In your work, I know you do a lot of meetings.

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You do group meetings, you do individual meetings. How do

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you do them? And what do you really want people

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to gain from being with you in communion like that?

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I want them to be able to gain trust and

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I want them to be able to see how God

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can bring them through. I am just the vessel, I

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am the voice, but God is the ultimate person that

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can get them to where they're trying to go. So

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that's my goal, is to walk with them and guide

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them along the way. And so just in doing that

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at their pace, not in my own. And I pray

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about it because I don't want to impart my beliefs

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or I don't want to impart my opinion. That's what

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I don't want to impart my opinion upon them. So

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what I will do would share my experience as to

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how I got through whatever I went through. But I

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want them to see and grow closer to God and

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study their word for themselves so that they could have

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what I have and what I am continuing to have.

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I have not arrived yet I'm still growing in God,

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so I want but I know that there's more for me,

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and so I'm just patiently waiting and seeking opportunities that

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He is directing me to. And I was, you know,

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he directed me to your podcast, So I'm just thankful.

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I was so thankful and surprised when I got the

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thumbs up about being a part of the podcast. That

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was really inspiring, and my daughter and my husband to text,

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so look, I'm kind of young Word of Mom radio

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and they were excited for me. So I have I

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haven't shared it with all of my family yet. As

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my daughter says, you know, as we're progressing, sometimes you

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have to move in silence, and so I'm moving a

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little bit in silence now. I want it to be

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directed by God and not by something that I've created.

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So I am be excited to share the podcast with

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them at the appropriate time. But yeah, I just want

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people to see God in all of this, even this

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chaotic world. And I have created, you know, my own

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little environment where I can stay grounded and root it

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even with all the chaos that's on around us, because

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that's what we're taught to do, that's what you know,

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the word says, and so I want to be more

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obedient now that I was in my earlier years, when

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I was less mature in Christ.

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I think that as we get older, we have more

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opportunity for that because life has taught yes, you know,

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patience I learned in a long time ago was that

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it's in God's time, not mine. For the universe again whatever,

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because when you think about you know, we think in

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a linear manner, and life does not work in a

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linear manner. I don't know if you ever saw the

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show The Good Place, which is just such an unbelievable

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show about dying and people who are dead now learning

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moral philosophy and how to be better people even though

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they're already gone kind of thing. And they talk about

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life being jeremy beary me, because that's what the lifeline

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looks like. It's kind of incursive. It comes out Jeremy

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bear me because it's just hooks and low. You know,

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changing is all over the place. But I do think

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as we gain years, and I don't know if it's

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Felicia Hurd Johnson

Author and Speaker

Felicia Hurd Johnson is a speaker and a self-published author. Felicia wrote a book titled, “Count It All Joy ~ Including the Broken Pieces ~ How My Trials Helped Me Trust God More.” which highlights how God brought her through the highs and lows of breast cancer, job loss, job gain, marriage, and divorce. Through it all, Felicia kept her faith and the challenges made Felicia better, not bitter. Felicia has shared her testimony on Texas Today, NBC 5, thanks to God.

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