Oct. 16, 2025

Christine Devane on the Children's Authors Alley with Dori DeCarlo

Christine Devane on the Children's Authors Alley with Dori DeCarlo
Christine Devane on the Children's Authors Alley with Dori DeCarlo
Word of Mom Radio
Christine Devane on the Children's Authors Alley with Dori DeCarlo

Christine Devane invites you to come along to Elephant Beach, where distractions are welcome!

Christine Devane grew up in Massachusetts, graduating from Merrimack College in 2006 with a degree in English and a minor in Elementary Education. She earned her master’s in Elementary Education from Merrimack in 2008. Over 13 years, Christine taught at St. Augustine Elementary in Andover and Plympton Elementary in Waltham. She lives in Wilmington with her husband, children, and dog. She's volunteered and taught English in Costa Rica, and is a member of the SCBWI, attending conferences in NYC and Springfield.

With her new book, Christine invites you to come along to Elephant Beach, where distractions are welcome and adventure arrives with each and every wave.

Join host Dori DeCarlo on The Children’s Authors Alley and connect with Christine at Christine-Devane.com and on LinkedIn, Instagram, Archway Publishing and Amazon.

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She is sure, she is straw is straw, She is true,

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is true, she is praise, pray, she is she is you.

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Hello, everyone, Welcome to today's Word of Mom Radio. Here on

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the Word of Mom Media Network. I'm your host, Dori

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Di Carlo. And you know we are here week after week,

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show after show, breaking those myths that morepreneurs and business women,

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especially those of us building our businesses from home, that

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we're just dabbling in between bake sales and getting our

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nails done. We're not. We are smart, we are savvy,

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and we are sharing the wisdom of women in business

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and in life. And I'm excited about bringing today's guest

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in to the children's author's alley. Christine Devane grew up

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in Massachusetts, graduating from Merrimack College in two thousand and

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six with a degree in English and a minor in

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elementary education. She earned her master's in elementary education from

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Maryrimac two thousand and eight. Were over thirteen years, Christine

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has taught at Saint Augustine Elementary in Andover and Plimpton

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Elementary in Waltham. She lives in Wilmington with her husband,

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children and dog. She's volunteered and taught English in Costa Rica,

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is a member of SCBWI, attending conferences in New York

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City and Springfield, and has written a really fun book

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called Elephant Beach. And I loved it and I am

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very excited about sharing it. So with all that being said, Christine,

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welcome to Word of Mom Radio.

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Hi welcome, Thank you for having me on today.

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It is my pleasure. I would love for you to

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take us on your journey as an educator that led

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you to writing Elephant Beach.

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Sure, so, actually started when I was very young. I

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enjoyed reading books, especially animal books. One of my favorite

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books was a biography actually on Jana Doll. I was

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very sad to hear about her passing last week because

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I just loved reading all of the amazing things she

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did with animals. And originally I wanted to be a vet,

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but sadly I cannot take the side of blood, so

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that path did not work for me. So when I

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was a teenager, I started working with children at after

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school programs. I started babysitting, and I found to be

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very rewarding because I got to have a creative side

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and I got to see the kids learn, and it

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was different every day. It was fun. So then I

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went to college became a teacher after that, and while

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I was teaching, I truly enjoyed storytime because all of

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the kids would sit on the floor, we would read

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a book, and most books have to do with social skills,

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so we had really good talks after and really good discussions,

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and kids loved sharing. And it was during these story

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times that I realized that there aren't a lot of

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books on shy kids. So I decided I wanted to

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write my own book on being shy. And that's when

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I originally joined that group that you're talking about, the SEBWI.

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So I joined their group. They have a lot of

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great resources. I went to the conferences and I joined

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critique groups, and from there I just kept writing and

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working on my book. And it's funny, I actually didn't

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hear anything for a few years, and then last year

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somebody called me to publish it. And the timing worked

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out well because I have three kids, but now they're

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a little bigger, they're in school, they're two, four, and six,

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so now I have a little bit more time to

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dedicate to the book and promoting it.

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It's exciting and you're in the thick of it, and

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this book, Elephant Beach, talk to us a little bit

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about it, because it really is a charming.

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Book, thank you. So it's about a little girl that

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goes to the beach by herself. She's shy, as I

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was growing up, and she sees group of elephants. She

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almost thinks they're annoying because they block the sun, they

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get sand on her towel. They invite her to play.

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She originally declines, and then after a little while she

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decides to join the group and she has fun with them.

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So it shows shy kids that sometimes if we step

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out of our comfort zone and try something new, we

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can make new friends and do fun things together, like,

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for example, they're in the water and because the elephants

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are so big, they're making waves and she's surfing, which

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she wouldn't really be doing by herself. And then it

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also shows extroverts that sometimes it's nice to lend an

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invitation or a hand to somebody that's quiet, somebody that's

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by themselves. It's nice to go over and invite them

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to be part of the group. And they might say

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no originally, and you know what, that's okay because every adult,

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every child has a different personality, and it's just showing

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kids how we can try to work together and just

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be kind to each other.

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I am sure that your experiences as a teacher have

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so much to do with the way you created this

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book and the experiences with kids in your classroom. For you,

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how has it been, because I'm sure you must have

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shared it with your students. How have they reacted?

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So I'm actually not in the classroom right now. I'm

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home with the three of them, but I have done

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over twenty classroom visits because I still talk to a

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lot of teachers that I used to work with, and

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I still have a lot of friends that are teachers.

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So the book came out in April, and before school ended,

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we did a lot of beach theme parties. So I

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would go in, I would bring towels, sunglasses. At beach ball,

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we would have fun, read the book, talk about lessons

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that kids learned, and just make it something memorable that

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kids really enjoyed. So I tried to bring the book

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to life rather than just going in and being somebody

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that's reading a story to them. So the kids really

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liked that and they had a lot of fun with it.

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The illustrations in the book are awesome. I would love

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for you to talk to us about your illustrator, because

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it really just each page. They're vibrant and they're fun,

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and for me, I got absorbed into the picture and

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then got to read the next caption of I love

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the shade, you know, because of the elephanty years and

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all of the other things going on. So it really

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just like I said, I just really enjoyed it.

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I'm so happy that you like the pictures and you

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like the book, and it's so nice to hear feedback.

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So the pictures actually were done by somebody at the

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publishing company, and what we did was I wrote very

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specific notes for how I wanted the pictures to look like,

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and then they drew them, and then we went back

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and forth because as specific as I might be, it's

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different when I see it. So, for example, there was

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a page where there was elephants. It was at the

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beginning of the book, and there was a big blank spot.

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So I said, okay, let's add a sign there, let's

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add this there, And the elephants outfits were tweaked a

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couple times. So it was really a lot of back

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and forth about how I envisioned the book and how

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the publishing company wanted the book to look. But I

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love how the pictures looked. I just wanted them to

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be bright, colorful. I wanted it to be a happy story,

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so that's why I wanted them to use a lot

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of very colorful pictures that would draw kids in.

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And it does, it really does, and they are there

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are illustrations, to me, should be a story in themselves,

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and then there's the story, and in both ways they

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compliment the story beautifully. Why did you choose elephants as

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the companion for this shy girl?

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So my favorite animal growing up was elephants, and my

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parents and grandparents would always bring me lucky elephants when

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they traveled. So I have a collection of elephants, and

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I've just always been drawn to them because they have

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such great personalities. They're very kind, they're very caring, they're

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very family oriented. And when I was thinking of a

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character that would be good for a children's book, I

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thought an elephant would be perfect because kids think they're

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funny because of their size, but they're also such warm

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and social creatures that I thought that it would be

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a great fit for the book.

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I too love elephants, and to me, even though they

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were always so big, they seemed shy. They have that

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little bit of humility, and I don't think they realize

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they're as big as they are, you know, I really don't.

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I actually traveled to Africa eight years ago with my

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husband and my mom and we got to see animals

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out in the wild, and we saw elephants out in

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the wild. And it's funny that you say that because

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they are really big, but they're not like the lions

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out there making a ton of noise and stuff like that.

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They just keep to themselves, so maybe they don't know

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their size are how big they are. But it was

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fascinating seeing them and seeing how they really stick together

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and how the older ones take care of the little ones,

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and it was amazing to see that that's how they

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really are. They're very kind, caring, nurturing creatures.

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Funny, I always tell my grandson big takes care of

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little because he's seven and his cousin, my granddaughter's five,

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and I use the elephants. I said, remember when we

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watch the thing, you remember how the big elephants take

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care of the little ones. They surround that baby as

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they walk, They make sure that little is taken care of,

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and so I love that because they do, and I

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think that kids identify with that, especially younger children where

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they're still being nurtured and cared for and taken care of.

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So in creating this, how much of your life in

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the classroom you feel kind of influenced where you want

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these books to go.

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So a lot of my work in the classroom actually

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came through in the book because, as I talked about before,

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kids have all different personalities. So almost every year you

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had a couple of kids that were very shy as

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I was, and I wanted them to be seen so

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that they could read a book where they see that

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it's okay to be shy, and it's okay to want

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to be by yourself and sometimes it's hard to join

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a group. And every year I got kids that were

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just quiet. So I wanted something that kids could read

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in school. And then, like I said, join the classroom visits.

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I've taken a lot of my teaching skills to my

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author visits where I bring activities, coloring sheets. The teachers

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always say, wow, now the kids are going to expect

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so much from all the author visits because you bring

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so much stuff with you because I really wanted to

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be something special for kids and also something that can

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help the teachers out. So I bring a writing activity

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where the kids pretend they're at the beach with an elephant,

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and what would they do with an elephant? And I

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think the top answer was eat a big ice cream.

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But it ties into the standards and reading and writing

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and it's not just here's a story. So I've tried

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to bring my teacher skills with me to story times,

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and I've done story times at some books. I'm actually

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doing one at a farm next week, so just trying

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to make it fun for kids.

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On that note, think about what Christine is talking about

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making it fun for the kids and bringing her education

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And we're back here on Word of Mom Radio. We

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are talking with Christine Devane about her book Elephant Beach

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and her journey as an educator. My background was in

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education and I did theater with kids and people would

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say to me, how do you do theater with a

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five year old? They're not even reading? And I would

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pick three different stories and we would have story time

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and then they would get to choose which one of

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those stories they wanted to bring to life. So we

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would keep reading it and they'd start bringing in costumes

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and they would create their dialogue. I never gave them

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a script, but you know how kids are when that repetition,

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you know, and to parents, I would invite them in

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to watch the last class that was their performance. We

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would do a song. I would teach them a song

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in sign language. We would do an adagio movement of

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just our arms where they would follow me, and then

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they'd get to act out their little play that they created.

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So I love that.

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That's awesome.

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Yeah, and I love that you come in with activities.

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other people that are come in to read to kids,

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because they should be thinking about how this book is

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going to engage a child, the conversations that come up

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after it, the things that they like, what scares them.

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Some kids are afraid of the beach. Some kids are

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afraid of elephants because they're so big. So what is

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being your biggest challenge in moving this forward? And you're

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the thing that you really sticks with you? That was like, man,

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that was awesome.

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So the thing that I thought was awesome was I

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went to a classroom and there was a little girl

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that knew I was kind of and she wore her

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elephant shirt, and she was so excited to show me

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that she also loved elephants and that she wanted to

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wear her shirt because she knew that I was coming

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in to see her. So that was probably one of

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the best things for me, knowing that there were little

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kids out there that identified with the book and were

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excited to read the book and also enjoyed elephants. And

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the hardest thing is just getting the book out there

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for people to read, and just the marketing and promoting

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of the book. That's a whole, totally different side, and

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that's a little bit of a challenge. But it's fun

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doing podcasts and story times and it's just a lot

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of reaching out and emailing. So I do a lot

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of that. At nighttime. I just email people that I

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know have storytimes. She want me to come in bookstore,

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same thing. So it's a lot of just outreach on

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my part people, and that's the only thing that's a

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little difficult is just finding the time and finding the

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places to reach out.

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To face it. Nobody teaches you this. This is you know,

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you're learning as you're going along. It's different when you're

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in a classroom. You have a curriculum, you've made out

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your study plans. You know, you create your lesson plans

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and everything else. In this it's like okay, and what's

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the next step. And it's great that they are things,

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you know, podcasts. I love bringing authors onto our show.

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love to read, and I use my grandchildren and our

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author's alley. They're my litmus you know. I'll read a

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book to them and if they really like it, I

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know that it's a good book. And if I did,

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it's lost their attention. They're not grabbing it. And it's like, well,

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you know, because they've been read to their whole lives

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and they have their taste and things. That's why, like

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your story, it's a good story. It's a good story.

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And what do you hope kids take away from Elephant Beach?

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Well, I hope that kids understand that being shy is

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it's tough and some kids just can't help it. When

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I was smaller, I didn't always want to join a group.

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oldest is very much like my husband. He's an extrovert.

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He will talk to anybody under the sun. He has

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no problems making friends. My other two, they're shy, and

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it's tough sometimes taking them places because sometimes they just

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want to sit with me and they don't want to

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join a group. And my middle sound's four, and he's

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kind of getting more into the groove of it. My

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daughter that's two, she's starting to have a tougher time.

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But I just want people to take away from it

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that we just have to be patient, and we can't

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change people's personalities, and we just have to kind of

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work with how kids are instead of forcing them to

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do things and making them uncomfortable and making them sad,

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because that's going to be things that they remember and

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it's not going to make them feel good. So it's

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better to just ease them into situations. With my son,

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I tell them, Okay, if you want to join, fine,

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If you don't want to join, fine. Last year he

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played soccer, he barely. He sat on the sidelines almost

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the entire year, and last week he played and he

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scored his first two goals and he was very excited.

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He was over the moon. Look at me, look at me.

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I did this. So yeah, I just want people to

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take away from the book that we just have to

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be patient and understanding and being shy is not a

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bad thing. I think sometimes moms are embarrassed or they

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feel bad if their kids don't want to join a group,

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or if the kids have a tough time. But for

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the most part, those kids are listening, they're taking everything in.

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They just don't want to share their opinions or thoughts

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all the time. I mean, my son I dropped off

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this morning as show and tell. I brought him with something,

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and he didn't want to take it because he doesn't

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want to do show and tell. So we just have

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to work with them. And his teacher is very nice.

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share it together. But all morning he did not want

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to take anything because he knew that if he brought

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something in he would have to talk in front of

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the class and share. But I did encourage him to

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bring something and his teacher said she would help him.

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So yeah, that's just the big message that everybody's personality

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is different. Everybody's personality is fine the way it is,

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and as parents teachers, we just have to be kind, caring, patient.

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I mean, I know with my own kids, my older son,

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he would talk all day, so sometimes you have to say, okay,

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well let's pause, let's have somebody else, because I have

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one that will talk all day and one that won't talk.

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in the conversation. But we have to make sure everybody's heart,

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everybody's treated equally and encourage them to have their own

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personalities without making them feel bad about who they are.

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What do you want to say to that mom out

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there that is struggling with this right now, because it

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can really be difficult, Christine, especially when you have that

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one child who is just right out there and comfortable

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with everything, and then you are trying to give that

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child grace and space as they are learning, because sometimes

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just taking that time gives that kid the ability to

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think about what they want to do. They don't just

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jump in, and I think sometimes parents think it's a

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reflection on them.

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Yes, I would have to agree with that.

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You know, as opposed to realizing that each person is different.

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My middle son was speech delayed and it made him shyer,

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I think. And I said to him one time, I said,

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do you think that it's because you're afraid people won't

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understand you? He shrugged his shoulders and he said, well,

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maybe God just made me shy. I know that was

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the same reaction I had. I just saw your face

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go and I was like, maybe he did. And that's okay,

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you know exactly, because there's the you know, shyness isn't

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a detriment, you know, it is part of who you are.

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And again I think that quite often parents will push

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because they might have been shy and don't want their

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child to experience what they experienced. Guess what, your kid's

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not going to experience what that you experienced, because it's

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not your life, it's theirs, you know. And that's that's

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one of the things that I took away from the book,

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and just the fact that you know, in the end

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there she was having a great time with her new

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friends on the beach. It so, as you wrapping up,

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what do you want to say to our listeners out

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there and how may they reach out to you? Christine?

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So I would repeat everything that you were just saying.

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I think is very true that there's no shame in

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having a shy child, and if your child is shy,

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that's okay. That's their personality, and you have to sometimes

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put yourself in their shoes. You might not understand it.

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I understand it because I was shy. My husband not shy,

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so he doesn't totally understand it. So I have to say, well,

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you know, sometimes you just have to take a second

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and think about how he's feeling. I could have kids

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over playing at my house and he'll be playing by himself,

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and my husband will say, well, why doesn't he want

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to play with them, and they say, I don't know,

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He's fine playing by himself. So I think there's room

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for parents to let kids be who they are and

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maybe suggest without pushing. So my son with the soccer

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last year, I brought him and he really didn't want

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to play. He sat on the side with me, but

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I still brought him and he watched the game and

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I told him, well, you signed for soccer, so we're

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still going to come. And then it was probably the

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second to the last game he started playing and he

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loved it. And then, like I said, last week, there

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he is scoring goals. So I think if you give

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them time to really warm up to things, I think

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because he sat and watched it for so long, he

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was more comfortable with their share playing rather than if

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I forced him and I said, you need to go

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play right now, look at all the kids playing, I

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think that we just really need to have some patients.

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They are still kids, and just because they're shy when

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they're four years old does not mean they're going to

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be shy their entire life. So just for all the

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moms out there not to feel bad, not to be

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stressed out, and just really do what works for your child,

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and maybe it's baby steps and doing things with them.

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Like I said, my son too didn't really enjoy going

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birthday party. Sometimes he would sit next to me. Now

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he's fine, But I think that if you let kids

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kind of have some space, it lets them see what's

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going on and how they're going to go into a situation.

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Like I said, my older son, the extrovert, he didn't

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do that. He just jumps into the situation. So the introverts,

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I think, take a little bit more time to scope

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about the scene, look at everybody involved, and then make

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a decision and that's okay. So that's what I want

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all the moms and the teachers out there to know

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that the pushing doesn't really help. And I know there's

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certain things from my childhood I remember that I did

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not enjoy. One of them was when I was called

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on in school because I did not like sharing. So

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when the teacher called on me, I would turn bright

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red and I did not like it. So when I

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was a teacher, I tried to stay away from that.

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So just be patient with the shy kids out there

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and understand that that's their personality and pushing them to

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do things is not really going to change who they

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are deep down.

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How many people reach out to you, Christine.

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So people can go to my website, so it's Christine

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and then it's a hyphen Divyane. And on my website

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it has all of my information. It has a contact page.

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If people want me to do story Times, you can

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buy the book there of the books on Amazon, Barnes

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and Noble, and Archway. And then my Instagram is STI

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N E D thirteen.

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All of Christine's links are going to be live on

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wordof momradio dot com. I encourage you to get the book.

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It's a really nice book. It's a fun read. Your

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kids will enjoy it and let them be. They're going

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to find who they are. Just keep encouraging them and

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love them and you'll see you know. So, Christine, I

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thank you so much for sharing your marvelous book with

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us and taking the time to join us here a

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word of mom Radio.

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Thank you well, Thank you so much for having me

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on today.

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It's been my pleasure. It really has them. For all

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of you tuning in, thanks so much for being here.

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We're going to close out with our fabulous theme song

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from Smith's Sisters and the Sunday Drivers. So till next time.

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This is Dori di Carlo saying, go out and create

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a marvelous you. Bye for now.

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She is sure, she is sure, she is strong, she

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is true, true, she is Braise, bra she is you, Pase,

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she is she is sure, she is sure, she is strong,

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she is true, true, she is brave, she is bold,

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She she is you. She is she is she is

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sure of herself. Yes, she takes care of his. Powerful

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and strong. Yet she knows who she is has integrity, woman,

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strong and true. You know her by name. See this

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woman is you? She is sure, she is strong, is strong,

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she is true, is true, she is brave, she is bold,

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she is, she is you, she is she is, she

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is sure, she is strong, is strong, she is true,

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is true, she is brave, she is bold, she is

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she is you, she is she is. She adds value

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and hope, has proved to be brave. See it's never

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too late, never time to behave Reaching for dreams doesn't matter.

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The age believes in herself ut least from her cage.

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she is true, is true, she is brave, is bray,

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she is bo is you, she is you, She she

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is sure, she is she is strong, she is strong,

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she is true, is true, she is brave, is brave,

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she is she is, she is you.
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Christine grew up in Massachusetts, graduating from Merrimack College in 2006 with a degree in English and a minor in Elementary Education. She earned her master’s in Elementary Education from Merrimack in 2008. Over 13 years, Christine taught at St. Augustine Elementary in Andover and Plympton Elementary in Waltham. She lives in Wilmington with her husband, children, and dog. She's volunteered and taught English in Costa Rica, and is a member of the SCBWI, attending conferences in NYC and Springfield.